I can barely say the word without thinking of teddy bears and unicorns. It is not a sexy word. Not hot.
I have nothing against “cuddling” in practice. It is the word I think should never be uttered on a first date (let’s use the word ‘date’ loosely). To be specific, I think the phase: “I just want to cuddle!!!” while jumping on top of someone else in a serious manner should be avoided entirely. This is not acceptable ‘first date’ behavior.
So how do you know when cuddling is acceptable? I’m a fairly straight-forward “I like to cuddle until I don’t anymore” kinda person. Very difficult to predict. Since I know this – I will simply tell you. “We don’t need to do this thing they call cuddling anymore.” But what about less direct people?
despite the non-sexy nature of the word itself, cuddling is often a catalyst for very sexy behavior, so the two are unfortunately not mutually exclusive. Also, is your goal to keep the first date as "sexy" as possible, and thus want to steer clear of un-sexy dialogue?
ReplyDeleteHmm. I think cuddling is too intimate for a first date. Depending on how well you know the person - too intimate for a first date.
ReplyDeleteI agree with both pts. cuddling can lead to more sexy behavior, yet it is a bit intimate for a first date, especially the jumping on someone part.
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